L O V E D

You need friends who remind you of who you are with songs especially at your lowest moments.
Oreoluwa Awolesi is a dear friend of more than 15 years, I had a discussion with her last week on #ShareyourMusicMiracle series.

She spoke of how she finished National Youth Service Corps (N.Y.S.C) over a year ago and was in the wait for job, to top it all up she went through a break up of a relationship that had lasted 3 years or more.

She felt life and God were unfair to her to have brought her through pitfall moments, first she knew she was smart and productive, she felt with that she should have gotten a job but all to no avail.

She decided to let go of everything, her faith in God and all. She was done!
This friend calls to check on her and she rants about how devastating everything had been, her friend says to her that she’s going to send a song that would help her up. She goes like ahn ahn in her mind because she wasn’t expecting that, she needed solution and not a song to listen to. Her friend sends the song and for sometime she didn’t listen to it, one day she decided to listen to it and boy! It was just what she needed. It encouraged, picked her up from where she had left herself and renewed hope in her heart.

Best part is she’s got a job now!
You see why we need friends who understand when it’s not just words that would do it but music…

Click here to listen to this rich conversation 👇https://anchor.fm/mercy-kay/episodes/L-O-V-E-DOreoluwa-Awolesi-em0fg9

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S A L V A G E D

Owonikoko Imisioluwa Olalekan my friend and dear colleague, we studied Music at Obafemi Awolowo University Ile Ife same year and if there’s anything I’ve always known him for it’s his ability to explore what you call abnormal and use this gift of music he has to influence culture.


I will say I learnt a lot from my conversation with him and it was so real, no airs, just two persons laughing and sharing deep stuffs on the power that music has to heal.


My friend, Koko runs an organization called Music for Development that is committed to driving positive social change through music, I have known his passion to communicate healing through music to the girl child for four years and it’s been such a joy to behold his becoming amidst the many ups and down that life throws at us.

Koko shared his music miracle with me and I found it humbling because I never knew he had been through something that painful that almost became an addiction.
When he was in secondary school, he lived with a family and what he was subjected to daily caused a damage to his tender heart, we know how life throws us stuffs but it’s always different with a child or teenager, it could leave them broken if not salvaged. Everytime he’d inflict injury on himself using a razor blade, because of the emotional trauma he was subjected to growing up, he’d weep uncontrollably.


One of those injury-infliction days, he listened to the song He saved me by R Kelly and it felt like someone could finally understand what he was going through. It felt like R Kelly was counseling him through his music and so he made it a habit to constantly listen to his song, this helped him to overcome the habit of inflicting injury on himself with razor blade. The flip part is that he was able to bring healing to others.

He also shared something that is worthy of note, not every music will heal you, some will make you sink into depression and it’s left to you to choose wisely.

I believe Koko’s life story in general is very inspiring especially for those who have struggled with acceptance, he’s someone you should listen to. Here’s the link to the akara song he shared with us on the podcast, it is worth listening to 👇
https://fanlink.to/the-akara-song

Do share with me one or two things you learnt from this blog. Full story on my podcast, kindly click  here to listen 👇https://anchor.fm/mercy-kay/episodes/S-A-L-V-A-G-E-D-ejmhkl

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